18 and 24 year old dating
It is my belief that, if she wanted to marry you, she wouldn't give you mixed messages.She would simply tell you that she wants to marry you but that she also wants to pursue her career.
It seems like she is sending conflicting messages hence why she keeps saying she is confused. I am looking for closure and just wondering if I contact and ask questions will she be truthful. She cares for you, she thinks you might be hurt, you stick to her original statement, that she is confused...It seems like she is sending conflicting messages hence why she keeps saying she is confused.u said u were casually dating but u asked her where u stood with her.u wanted to be exclusive and maybe something more and she probably began to realize she is not ready for that and ended thing with u. maybe she doesn't plan to settle down with someone 20 years older than her.I'm just confused as to why she said, "she is confused and likes me so much? I think she is honestly telling you she is confused, and she likes you... Don't over-read her, if she wants to marry you, she would not wait for long!!" After she said that and we hung up the phone she texted me numerous times to say how sorry she was and that she never meant for it to be like this. Because i have seen young girls have a dream of getting married! Only few girls have a dream to be independent, And majority are seeking, security in the form of marriage/ success as in the form of power, !!!Also am I being stupid dating a 24 year old when I'm 44? Different goals, aspirations, ambitions when you are in 20z, and when you are in 40z, Some girls don't like to be tied in marriage, they are overall good buddies. I have always been comfortable with people who are older to me. Don't worry about if she is telling a truth, treat her like your friend, a junior buddy, a cute gf, a growing individual.... She is entitled to make a choice whenever she is prepared, staying her friends would always reassure her without speaking! I am looking for closure and just wondering if I contact and ask questions will she be truthful.
Also some girls or even boys who date with aged people, they usually have a background for why they incline to somebody older. But for my second marriage, i would reconsider age gaps... many of the marriages with huge age gaps have failed in the area where i live.. I'm just confused as to why she said, "she is confused and likes me so much? She has already given you closure, and she was honest with you. You are on two completely different paths and if you truly love her, you will understand that she is not where you are in life and loves you as a friend or an amazing experience thus she is not the "ONE" Why would she say she is confused and cares so much about me?
Tell her that, if she should decide she wants to marry you she should contact you.
But, if she doesn't feel the same way, it would be much kinder on her part to stop sending you mixed messages and let you get over her and move on with your life. We weren't at the "will you marry me" stage as we were basically dating casually and then I believe we both started having feelings for each other.
I felt insulted, as he was essentially putting the chicken before the egg, as it were.
I told him that my career was very important to me and that I would never get pregnant out of wedlock. Your girlfriend has different priorities from you and this probably is related to your age difference.
.you instantly jump onto marriage and stuff, it can push your partner away.