Single mothers are bona fide idiots and here is why you should never even consider dating one: First, this is a woman who clearly doesn’t give a shit about her child’s well-being and future prospects.
When a man picks a wife, he wants to know he won’t be competing with some random babydaddy who was there before him.Positive and affirmative statements such as, “I can handle this,” I am strong and courageous,” and “I am open to this experience,” are powerful in anxiety management.Updated to add: The use of the term ‘single mother’ is not exactly accurate.Focus on your breathing while telling yourself something calming, comforting and kind.Put on some music that makes you feel good, wear something that you feel attractive in and focus on the confident parts of you.If you ever find yourself referring to a woman whose husband died on a battlefield as a single mother, you should immediately pour Tabasco sauce into your eyes, because you deserve to weep all the tears I’m certain she has.
Having a child out of wedlock is pretty much the number one thing you can do to fuck up your life.
For instance, it is likely that you will feel more anxious if you view dating as a challenging task, place pressure on yourself to find an ideal partner quickly, believe that every date is supposed to go well or view yourself as inadequate or unlovable.
On the other hand, if you view dating as a fun experience with expected ups and downs, feel that you are deserving of love and believe that you will find the right person in time, your anxiety level is likely to decrease.
You can pick up a heroin addiction, drop out of high school, rob a bank or decide to write the great American novel financing yourself on your credit cards.
You can go to rehab, get your GED, get parole, and pay off those cards.
If you screw up and get pregnant, don’t screw up even more and bring an innocent child along with you!