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I have struggled home with large packages while male neighbors just cheerfully wave hello. Was he waiting for me to get up from the table where I was sitting, walk across the room (carrying my unfinished coffee), and introduce myself? I have heard that they are wonderful, that they are warm, funny, thoughtful, and sexy.Wearing high heels and a skirt, I have wrestled my bike out from a pile of collapsed junkers while hefty workmen smoked cigarettes against the bike rack. Sadly, I'll never know, because after the 15 minutes it took me to figure out what was required of me, Mr. I hear that they are the prototype for men of the 21st century. On my very first night in Copenhagen, I went with an American girlfriend to a downtown discoteque. I think Zulus or spacemen would have found some way to communicate with us, but this was apparently beyond the capability of three well-educated Danes.

They'll make fun of you; they'll think you're desperate. What men want of course, is the same thing that has produced a world population currently in excess of 6 billion.Before 1am, Danish men weren't drunk enough to talk, and after 3, they were too drunk to talk.Extreme drunkness seems to be the accepted way to meet that special someone, as explained to me in the days when I still was seeking a Danish boyfriend."What you do," a Danish girlfriend explained to me, "is you get trashed and go home with somebody.The icebreaker of course, is alcohol, and I have little doubt that if it vanished from the Earth tomorrow Danes would never reproduce.It didn't take me long to learn that in Danish parties and nightclubs, there was a window of time, roughly from 1am to 3am, where social intereaction was possible.Either that, or worse, he will sit home and sulk about it.

Last year, I briefly dated a good-looking triathlete, a guy with a hot job and a fancy car, the kind of guy that in New York would have arrogance preceding him into the room like a bad after shave.

Here, drunken sex with a complete stranger seems to be the hopeful prelude to a serious relationship, possibly marriage.

If children result from this, it is hard to imagine what their parents tell them about the night Mom and Dad first met.

My Life in Denmark I've lived in Denmark for six years now, and I like it very much.

As an American, however, I am a perennial target for complaints about U. eating habits, George Bush's foreign policy, and the inappropriate behavior of characters on American sitcoms.

Then in the morning you decide if you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend."This one-night stand culture is very difficult for foreigners to understand.