Dating and partnering
No human being is perfect, so finding someone who is approachable and receptive to feedback can be a huge asset to a lasting union.
Being “grown up” isn’t merely a matter of not acting like a kid anymore.It’s not about a boyfriend who remembers to take out the trash or a girlfriend who never runs late.These qualities are nice, but to truly grow up means making an active effort to recognize and resolve negative influences from our past.Respect & Independence Ideal partners value each others’ interests separate from their own.They feel congenial toward and supportive of each other’s overall goals in life.Nothing has a more destructive impact on a close relationship between two people than dishonesty and deception.
Even in painful situations such as infidelity, the blatant deception involved is often equally, if not more, hurtful than the unfaithful act itself.
They develop a strong sense of independence and autonomy, having differentiated from destructive influences from early in life.
As they evolve within themselves, they are less likely to look for someone to compensate for shortcomings and weaknesses or to complete their incompleteness.
Valuing and respecting our partners’ sovereign minds and not trying to change them allows us to really know them as a separate people.5.
Empathy The ideal partner perceives their mate on both an intellectual, observational level and an emotional, intuitive level.
Instead, they’re looking for someone to share life with as equals and to appreciate independently of themselves.