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Dating before deployment

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It's different for everybody, but somethings you can expect are; he'll be busy before he leaves, and really busy the first couple of months away.

For example, if he's deploying to a Muslim-majority country, you can't send him pork products.I've only said that once before, and that was in an abusive relationship.We were long distance, but I was already planning on moving out to the east coast to be closer to him. We messaged every night, and talked all the time either via Face Time or a phone call.And as for the deployment process it really depends.My fiancé is deployed right now but it’s different from his last deployment.We're in our first month still and he leaves for deployment in june or july.

It is rather scary to me because I don't know what to expect.

I was even able to drop him off at the airport and stay with him until he had to go.

It also depends where he gets deployed to, where he stays, and what he’s there for.

He had me out to visit, and he even cancelled plans with his friends last-minute to fly out to see me for a week before I left for overseas.

We played around with the idea of me moving out, and he had me convinced I was important to him.

It's the dating phenomenon that happens when people are too cowardly to actually end things with the people they've been seeing, so they choose to just… In this weekly column, I share a tale of a time a reader was ghosted (with accompanying screenshots) so you can see the last text that was sent or words that were uttered before someone decided to disappear forever. This week we have Jackie*, a soldier who was ghosted by the guy she loved.