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These are the people who lash out with things like restraining orders, false accusations of abuse etc when you want to say Enough is Enough.They are stalkers, both physically and more often online.
Much of this is their past coming out, they have triggers which I personally have no idea about and then suddenly they lash out at what you think is normal behavior on your part. You might consider an exit strategy at this point, because this is a roller coaster you do not want to ride.We all have our crazy parts, the trick is to find someone you don’t want to change, and they don’t want to change you.More observed and good advice This is for both men and women.I try not to push because there are some very damaged kids who hate the split and are really defensive about the abandonment issue they are dealing with.My kids are awesome, you may not find ones like mine, but I hope so.The wheels are going to come off just in time for the worst of outside situations occur. Men do it too And just when you think I’ve covered the worst you get the Dangerous/Nuts These are the mentally ill, but better at hiding it.
In this crowd you have the addicts, alcoholics, narcissists, sociopaths and generally deeply damaged human beings who don’t have the same personality at the end of a date they had at the beginning.
If you are new in the dating pool take this advice. NO major career changes, no new long term relationships ( marriage or living together) and no really serious large financial decisions.
Your emotions are a mess, even if you think you are ok.
You really do not want these types knowing you are prepared for anything other than dinner.
Consider whats going to happen if they cant get their meds at some point. They fall in love before you know them, making them much more unstable.
You will feel very strong emotions both good and bad until you have stabilized your life.