Rules of dating a younger man
Try not to allow judgement from others sway your love for each other. Sure you have some potential disagreements and conflict.
The good news is your girls probably grew with age and maybe a little weight gain elsewhere. Play the music you like when he comes over, suggest movies from your youth on movie night, and for goodness sake do not keep up with the Kardashians.Cougars are all the rage for men in their twenties through forties (although the latter are kidding themselves—they’re no young cubs).But just what is it about women in the 40 plus group that is such a turn on?When he asks you about your history, don’t be afraid to share.Like a crop top or too much makeup, catty behavior instantly ages you.Your body won’t bounce back the same; and if he wanted a party girl, he’d be with one, instead of you. The greatest thing about dating someone younger is that he has so many places to show you that you’d never know about otherwise, and visa versa. You’ve had a longer life and inevitably accomplished more than your cub.
It’s natural to reference your own history, experiences, victories etc.
Too many cougars hit the gym obsessively, whittling their bodies down to nothing but bone. He won’t know as much about money management or interior design or even table manners as you do.
His apartment might be messy and his resume might be all botched up. If you lie about having children or send them away to visit their aunt anytime your cub comes over, everybody will feel guilty.
I am 18 years over and we are truly a romantic love story.
We are mindful people who happened to love one another, and we’ll be together until one of us passes .
They aren’t for everyone, but as someone who has been in a very rewarding partnership for some time now, I can honestly say that I would never go back. I enjoyed the seeing the.people faces and some of the comments.